18 Feb
“A great man is always willing to be little.” একজন মহান মানুষ সবসময় ছোট হতে ইচ্ছুক।
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একজন মহান মানুষ সবসময় ছোট হতে ইচ্ছুক।
𝑼𝒏𝒍𝒐𝒄𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒖𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒑𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒇 𝒉𝒖𝒎𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚
নম্রতার মহাশক্তি কে জাগ্রত করুন…..
Humility is the only quality that disappears the moment you think you have it.
It’s an interesting virtue that if fully realized, is a superpower that will lead you to a successful and fulfilling life.
নম্রতা হল একমাত্র গুণ যা আপনার কাছে আছে বলে মনে করার মুহুর্তে অদৃশ্য হয়ে যায়।
এটি একটি আকর্ষণীয় গুণ যা সম্পূর্ণরূপে উপলব্ধি করা হলে, এটি একটি মহাশক্তি যা আপনাকে একটি সফল এবং পরিপূর্ণ জীবনের দিকে নিয়ে যাবে।
Humility doesn’t entail low self-esteem and an invitation for people to take advantage of you. It’s more of a deep understanding of reality that guides your actions and frees you of the burdens that plague your life.
How does humility do this…?
Reasons To Be More Humble
অধিক নম্র ভদ্র হওয়ার কারনঃ
1. People feel comfortable and valued around you (লোকেরা আপনার চারপাশে আরামদায়ক এবং মূল্যবান বোধ করে):
Humility is an extremely attractive quality. When you demonstrate humility, others feel valued and enjoy their time with you. When you exude ego, those around you either feel inferior or just find you annoying.
Humility doesn’t ask you to lose your dignity. Many of the most dignified people also have the most humility. As C.S.Lewis said:
“Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it’s thinking of yourself less.”
2. You can see when you are wrong and do something about it (আপনি যখন ভুল করবেন তা দেখতে পারেন এবং এটি সম্পর্কে কিছু করতে পারেন):
Recognizing and admitting to yourself when you are wrong can be difficult. One of our biggest barriers to progress is always thinking we’re right. We’re not. It’s good to be confident in your knowledge and convicted in your beliefs, but not to the extent of blindness to your faults.
Approaching life with an attitude of humility makes you more conscious and accepting of the mistakes you make, and gives you the strength to dust yourself off and move forward.
3. Humility gives you the desire to learn (নম্রতা আপনাকে শেখার ইচ্ছা তৈরি করে দেয়):
When you have the humility to internalize how little you know, you’ll want to learn more. There’s a vast amount of information out there and countless skills to master. Pride in what you already know gives you little motivation to explore deeper. But when you contextualize your understanding of the world and appreciate how far you have left to go, you create a healthy desire to learn more.
4. You are able to cope better with criticism (আপনি সমালোচনার সাথে আরও ভালভাবে মানিয়ে নিতে পারবেন):
When you’re criticized, your ego takes a hit. Being humble allows you to limit the impact.
Having the humility to recognize that you aren’t good at everything and that as you go through life you will make mistakes and learn from them, allows you to receive criticism, take any value from it, and discard the rest without it affecting you too much.
5. Helps you be patient with others ( নম্রতা আপনাকে অন্যদের সাথে ধৈর্য ধরতে সাহায্য করে):
Humility involves recognizing you are not perfect but appreciating your value and ability to improve. When you understand this about yourself, you are more patient with others because you know they have their own struggles and challenges, and are on the same journey through life as you are.
Why judge others when you are flawed too? We need to be kinder to each other and humility helps us do this.
6. You can positively influence others (আপনি ইতিবাচকভাবে অন্যদের প্রভাবিত করতে পারবেন):
Pride isn’t conducive to influence. As a manager, teacher, leader, or even a friend, if you want to have a lasting, positive impact on others you need to practice humility. You can be confident in yourself and humble at the same time. That’s actually important.
But when you feel superior and push your ideas, you don’t help others learn. Your words will have little influence if you talk like you’re the second coming. However, speak with care and humility and your message is likely to stick.
7. You’ll get more done (আপনি আরো ভলো ভাবে সম্পন্ন করতে পারবেন :
I’ve found that the times when I’ve spoken the most, I’ve acted the least. I’ve always had great ideas and thoughts, but I’ve not always been the best at putting them into action. Whenever I get caught up in telling others about my future plans or this new productive routine I’ve discovered, I end up just feeling good about myself and not following through.
On the other hand, when I’ve acted first and approached my goals and knowledge with humility, I’ve managed to succeed. Showing off knowledge or boosting your ego by sharing your plans usually doesn’t result in much. Keeping your head down and getting on with it does.
8. Keeps you grounded ( আপনাকে গ্রাউন্ডেড বা পরিবেষ্টিত রাখুন ):
As you go through life, becoming more successful and climbing up the social ladder, staying humble is essential to happiness. Don’t forget where you came from. Don’t forget why you started the journey and the dreams you had.
It’s easy to get lost in the chase and lose sight of what we truly want in life. Remaining humble in your journey through life allows you to see how far you’ve come and remember who you really are.
9. Helps the world move forward (বিশ্বকে এগিয়ে যেতে সাহায্য করুন ):
Life is about serving and giving value to others. Being too focused on yourself and your own gain means you don’t look outward to see what you can contribute to society. If everyone cared only about themselves, we’d get nowhere.
Great inventions, businesses, and services solve a problem or need. Being humble allows you to think of yourself less and direct your energy and potential towards helping the world a happiness.
10. Allows you to live in the moment (আপনাকে প্রতি মুহূর্তে ভালো ভাবে বাঁচতে দেয়):
Your ego fixates on the past for its identity and is addicted to the future for its fulfillment. This prevents you from living in the moment. You need to live in the present to fully appreciate the bounties of life, and every minute you spend regretting your past or worrying about your future is a lost moment.
Humility helps you appreciate where you are now without getting lost in the pressures of tomorrow.
11. Gives you perspective and leads to happiness ( নম্রতা আপনাকে দৃষ্টিভঙ্গি তৈরি করে দেয় এবং সুখের দিকে নিয়ে যায়):
When you put things into perspective, you realize how small you are in the grand scheme of things. You are a tiny dot in an infinite universe. Billions have come before you and many more will come after you.
Internalizing this truth is very humbling. Yet it doesn’t mean you are just another worthless soul that will one day return to dust. Seeing your life as a gift and a statistical miracle gives you more reason to make the most of it and a deep sense of joy and gratitude.
What better reason is there to live a purposeful and happy life ?
উদ্দেশ্যপূর্ণ এবং সুখী জীবন যাপনের জন্য এর চেয়ে ভালো কারণ আর কি আছে…?
𝑯𝒖𝒎𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚 𝒊𝒔 𝒅𝒆𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒒𝒖𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚 𝒐𝒇 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂 𝒎𝒐𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒗𝒊𝒆𝒘 𝒐𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒊𝒎𝒑𝒐𝒓𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆. 𝑩𝒖𝒕 𝒊𝒕’𝒔 𝒔𝒐 𝒎𝒖𝒄𝒉 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕.
𝑴𝒐𝒔𝒕 𝒔𝒐𝒄𝒊𝒆𝒕𝒂𝒍 𝒊𝒔𝒔𝒖𝒆𝒔 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒅 𝒐𝒏 𝒆𝒈𝒐 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒅𝒆. 𝑾𝒂𝒓, 𝒄𝒐𝒓𝒓𝒖𝒑𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏, 𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒊𝒔𝒎, 𝒎𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒔𝒎, 𝒐𝒑𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒐𝒏, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒓𝒐𝒐𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒊𝒏 𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒈𝒓𝒆𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇-𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒕. 𝒀𝒆𝒕 𝒘𝒆 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒏𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒕𝒓𝒚𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒐 𝒍𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒂 𝒈𝒐𝒐𝒅 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆.
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Mahmuduzzaman is the founder of a2z Marketing Group. A Professional Marketer, Corporate Trainer, Educator, Business Counselor, and Productive Business Eantruprinor, he’s a way sought- after inspirational speaker.